I can totally relate. I too do not want to date anyone but my MM. But I have been approached by SM, often. I think it wouldn't hurt to go, you owe yourself that much. If there is no chemistry, don't continue. It also depends what you want. Do you want a committed relationship with OM, or are you content with your MM??
gal -- listen, a lunch here, a movie and dinner there, is not marriage so go out with SG, if you're attracted to him! if this "never happens" then you should take every opportunity offered to you to see what happens. if and this is a big IF, the relationship with SG goes further, then you'll have a decision to make about yourself, your needs, your future and MM. but for now, relax girl! go on a date and have fun!
I was just talking to MM about this the other night...we got on the topic again of me finding someone of my own and he wanted to know what WE were going to do when that time comes...I told him that I honestly didnt know...now I am not the kind of girl to sleep with someone right away in a relationship...so MM has the advantage there, LOL! I guess it will all depend on when this happens, the circumstance and the SM! I could meet someone and fall madly in love with them and not think twice about another guy...but if it was right now...I would choose to stay with MM and still date the new guy and just take it from there...MM said he would still like to continue our relationship...what he says and what he will do could be two different things though...I know he has a jealous streak in him...I was talking to him about an ex-BF that I have remained friends with...I mentioned we might have dinner one night before the holidays and I dont think he liked that idea too much...but he knows he cannot ask me not to because he doesnt have the right...so he went along with it. I am very happy with my relationship with MM as it is right now...I am not interested in anyone right now nor do I have the interest in persuing anything new. I look at it this way...when the time is right, I will meet the man I am intended to spend the rest of my life with and until then...MM and I have each other!
gurl