what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2008
what to do
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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 8:10pm
im such a lurker here, but i have been really down in the dumps lately. been with AP for 7 years, im married he has a girlfriend. our situation is difficult as he is a friend of H. so we dont get to see a lot of eachother, usually every 3 or 4 months really. up until recently we texted constantly...our only form of communication. and it was always a constant thing, easily 100 or more texts a day. lately he seems to just be flat out ignoring me, and it really bothers me. if i ask him why he is so quiet he says he is busy. busy is fine, but im really not buying it. i hope im not coming off as the psycho i think i sound like lol. i have asked him if he is tired of me or if he wants to stop and the answer is always no. but i dont feel like he wants to continue, ya know? ive pressed him on the issue, more than enough and i keep getting the same answer. any insight?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
In reply to: nothing_else
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 8:18pm
let him come around.
Take a break, stop contacting him. The more you chase him, the faster he runs.
Good luck.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2008
In reply to: nothing_else
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 8:26pm
well i have already started in that direction. i may have to sit on my hands, but so far i havent contacted him in two days. and havent heard from him either. maybe this in itself will give me the answer i need.