What to do about X-mas party
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| Wed, 12-10-2003 - 2:03pm |
The first party we had I wore a slinky black dress and my H said I looked "not like the other ladies there". Which was not true. The difference was I was the youngest woman there and had to dance w/ one of my co-workers, not MM, as a joke for the last door prize alone on the dance floor w/ all eyes on us. So we got alot of attention that year, especially me.
Anyway last year, to avoid conflict I wore a nice silk blouse and black skirt, nothing to draw attention to myself and appease my H. (Still didn't keep MM's eyes off me though-:wink:)
So this year I bought a "knock-em dead" black dress because I want to torture MM that night while he is there with his W. This dress shows every curve on my body. I have been going to the tanning bed and have gotten my tan back and am going all out w/ hair and nails too. One problem....my H. We have had several arguments about what I am going to wear. He said I should dress like MM's W does ! LOL! I refuse to dress down this year. He says I am dressing up for someone...I said yeah...myself ! Do you all agree that he is being just plain possesive and acting out of jealously ? Even though unbeknownst to him he has a reason to be ?

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and tell your stupid, ass H that he better start appreciating you, or others just might!!
go to that damn party, dressed to the hilt, and enjoy yourself!
i'm having a holiday party with BF on saturday night, and MM and his W, along with 35 of our friends will be there and you can bet the house that i'm dressing way, way, way up and enjoying ALL the attention. MM already knows i'm wearing really tight clingy low slung pants with a body-hugging top and no undies and he's dying!! between you and me, we better cross our fingers neither one of us gets into trouble with MM!!
go for it,
gurl
The sexiest women aren't necessarily the ones who flaunt everything they've got.
where did you get that idea from her posts??
gurl
I plan on telling MM when I get there that there's nothing on underneath and maybe we can steal a few minutes alone. I hope so. If our stubborn selves would have given in before now there have been many chances at the last party to be alone with each other. :o)
I love the way he makes me feel about myself and that's one of the reasons we are together. He makes me want to look good and have all the confidence in the world. That's what attracted him to me. H just brings me down. No fun at all. :o( I know I'm not god's gift to men but MM makes me feel like I'm god's gift to him ! He's so good. Too bad he's gone for the day ! :o(
I will let you all know how the party goes !
Hugs for making me feel better !
~Blue
and the "torture" comment seems to have more to do with making her MM want her more knowing just what's under (or not under!!) that dress. making the W feel jealous is going to go with the territory since MM's W doesn't dress like that, is probably already feeling insecure and is jealous anyway.
so blue should be so considerate of everyone else's feelings in the future that she covers up completely in pants and a sweater and flats! that's not gonna happen on saturday night!
i feel this is one of those cases of "overthinking"! JMHO.
gurl
Wearing pants and a sweater and flats wouldn't be office-party appropriate anyway. ;)
Have a good weekend, and may everyone enjoy their office parties this year!
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