What to do with a FWB?

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Registered: 07-29-2008
What to do with a FWB?
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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 4:03pm

My AP and I agreed in the beginning to see each other when we could and I told him I just wanted companionship and there wouldn't have to be any commitment.

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Registered: 02-09-2008
Tue, 09-30-2008 - 1:36am

I could have written your post.

IMO, it's almost impossible for a woman to stay unattached over any length of time. We aren't wired that way.

If you want to tell AP you love him, then do it. Just don't expect that he will feel the same about you. You do have the right to express your feelings, but if you really feel love for him, then you should be able to give him that gift without needing it in return. If you do tell him and he runs, then he doesn't deserve to get your love anyway, hope that makes sense.

Without more information than what you've posted here, it seems your AP is quite happy with the arrangement you have. It's up to you if you are happy with the arrangement you have. If you are not, then you need to decide what you want to do based on what you want, not on what you think he wants or feels.

Pisces




Edited 11/23/2008 8:23 pm ET by pisces2008
pisces
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Registered: 07-29-2008
Tue, 09-30-2008 - 9:42am

Yes, I think my AP is very happy with the arrangement that we have.