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What Do I Do?
| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 6:45pm |
I have been seeing a MM for 3yrs. He is separated but not divorced yet. He thinks his relationship with his W is better now since he no longer lives under the same roof. My problem is why he hasn't filed for a divorce. They've been living apart for several years. He says he's "waiting" for his daughter to grow-up. She is 11yrs old. I'm beginning to feel used-which I cant stand! I feel like I am the one who is vulnerable here. Part of me wants to get back all the letters, cards and pictures from him that I've given to him over the years and another part of me is scared of not having him in my life. What should I do?

The other day I asked my mom if she believed him that he stayed married for all those years while the children grew up, she said that she sincerely did.
Granted, this may not be the norm, but I am living proof that this can be the case.
Good luck!