What do You "Call" Your AP?

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What do You "Call" Your AP?
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Tue, 05-18-2010 - 7:46pm

If you were to reference them in conversation, how would you refer to them?

anotherseyes

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Tue, 05-18-2010 - 8:31pm
Paramour.
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Wed, 05-19-2010 - 1:22am
He is my lover, we never use the word AP.
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Wed, 05-19-2010 - 9:11am

Since I never ever talk about him to anyone - I don't call him anything! I call him by name (of course) when I'm speaking to him.

Last time we were together and we had lunch together, I was telling him that we were having something or other for dinner and that I would not be able to eat much because we were eating a lot for lunch. He said, well if you're not hungry just don't eat. I said - how would I explain that? "Ummm, I'm not hungry, I had a big lunch out with my boyfriend"... So I guess I called him my b/f then, and trust me, I'm a lot older than you are Another! LOL!

If I were single and seeing someone, as old as I am, I think I would still use "boyfriend". What else is there to use?

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Wed, 05-19-2010 - 10:01am
I've never had to refer about my AP to someone who doesnt know him ,so no prob there.If I ever had to, well, I would call him my boyfriend,lol! I am 50 and he is 56 ( pretty young,hey!)!
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Thu, 05-20-2010 - 4:38pm

 


Much peace & Love,


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 05-20-2010 - 5:01pm

I like paramour, too;).


When we're talking to each other, I usually just call him babe, and he calls me sweetie.

anotherseyes

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Thu, 05-20-2010 - 8:17pm
I call him P.I.T.A..lol Seriously I don't really call him anything. To myself, I think of him as my boyfriend.
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Fri, 05-21-2010 - 7:10am
In bed, I called him Oh God. ;-)
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Fri, 05-21-2010 - 9:07am

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Fri, 05-21-2010 - 9:23am

hahaha yeah I may have gone wth 'Oh God' a few times myself.


Generally I call him my friend (when he is feeling guilty) or he calls us lovers when he is feeling confident (ie not so guilty).

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