What do you do in these situations....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
What do you do in these situations....
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Sat, 03-29-2003 - 11:43am
Ok...I have this question about MM and Money.


Do any of your MM's give you money - and if they do - how do you handle accepting it -

This is a first for me - MM handed me money and told me to go buy calling cards with it.

I mean should I just accept it with a smile ?? It's his money right, he can do with it what he likes right ??

I thought it sweet and yes I used the money for exactly what he said - because I can go thru a 60 minute phone card in 2 days with him - so I supose it's sweet that he wants to help support the cause so to speak LOL...but I am just wondering if anyone has dealt with money issues of any kind - should I even care or just be happy he does this ?? I know the answer ...be happy

JS

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sat, 03-29-2003 - 11:58am
It is a slightly awkward feeling at first...but it is nice to see him helping contribute financially to the relationship.....think of it as a gift/contribution....there is no reason that you should have to constantly be the one shelling out the money for calling cards....so definately accept it with a smile...and enjoy that he is respecting your contribution by helping..

molly

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-30-2003 - 2:16am
From the other side, MM doesn't give me money, but he does always pay for everything. I have given him money on a couple occassions to reimburse him, and it makes me feel as a partner in the relationship.

Yes, I would accept it ocassionally with a smile and thanks...and know that he is anticipating your calls!!