What do you make of this?

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Registered: 04-01-2008
What do you make of this?
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Tue, 09-09-2008 - 12:16pm

Ok I know I am setting myself up for a lot of negative replies to this question, but I am so confused about things today.

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 1:12pm
I'll tell you why. cause he wants you on HIS terms, he feels like being nice today, so he will, what about tomorrow, you don't know whats in store, he is unpredictable, don't let him get to you by his being nice when HE feels like it. And let me remind you that friday was not the first time you needed him, and he wasent there, remember? the seizure? how many more times can it happen? dont let it, let him worry about you for once!
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Registered: 03-01-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 1:15pm
I'll have to go back to read your story but without knowing the details I can say this:

 

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 04-01-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:06pm
iggy - I know you are right, but what if he was holding back all this time because I am married and he is single and he was guarding his own heart?
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 9:39pm

well, the only thing you could do is ask him, but I am telling

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Registered: 10-11-2007
Tue, 09-09-2008 - 10:02pm

I agree with Iggy, Lionness..


Seems like he is being nice to reel you back in again...good on you for not responding to him..just don't tomorrow!!


Definitely leave it alone...


Apple : )


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Registered: 06-15-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 8:56am

It's easier for us to see this than you because we just read the clues from what you write.

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 9:02am

Btrue said "It appears that he might sense he has flubbed up his good thing so he treading lightly to keep it intact"

That's what I was thinking also, but I was afraid to say it.

I hate how I'm sure people feel hurt when something is presented that sounds so cold. But I was thinking that he realizes he might be losing his "no strings" sex and he's trying to win that "perk" of his back.

Unless he goes a LOT further in proving some sort of change, I would continue on the path you were on - which is to end this before the whole thing destroys you further.

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.

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Registered: 04-01-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:01pm

Well he called this morning, he usually does on Wednesday and the first thing he said was I sent you a text and an email and got no replies.

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Registered: 06-15-2007
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:12pm

Read Lexi's post to A.K.A. about FWB.

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Registered: 09-01-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:16pm

"He said he has been pulling away for weeks because I have been too needy of him and he has told me that it's not what he wants. That does not mean he doesn't want me in his life."

Sorry hon but I gotta agree with the others. He doesn't want *you*, he wants sex.I see the FWB reference but lets face it, he's hardly treating you like a friend, is he? So that just leaves the benefits bit.

Please, please don't get sucked back into being his plaything.

D x

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