What do you make of this??

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Registered: 04-20-2003
What do you make of this??
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Mon, 02-16-2004 - 6:56pm
Okay, maybe it is just PMS talking but here goes....

Celebrated V-Day with MM last Thursday. Did mention in passing that my kids were at their Dad's for the weekend. I did NOT stress the subject, because I did not want to hear him say he had plans with the W, and I did not want to hear him say "I might be able to stop by", because too many disappointments have come from that, and I couldn't handle being disappointed on V-Day. I did get a nice card, and cute little present.

Anywho, he comes into my office this morning and asked how the weekend was? I said, Okay, I painted blah blah blah....and he says (in a surprised voice)..."Oh the kids were gone??!! I was home doing nothing!! Why didn't you say anything??"

I am completely torn on this. He KNEW the kids were gone, didn't he?? But yet, nice to hear he wasn't out wooing the W, like I figured he was. I've been stewing all day over him not showing up when he could have!!! It was Valentine's Day. Could he have honestly forgotten my saying the kids were gone??

I am honestly P-oed about this. But I can't quite figure out why! Maybe it's the fact that we haven't spent more than 20 minutes alone since October!!!!!

GRRRRRRR....why are men, married or not, so dang exasperating!!

Just Venting!

CFH

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Thu, 02-19-2004 - 12:24pm

hey heavenly -- glad you're happy in your marriage.

CL-Gurlfriend50

Co-CL of My Affair Support Board

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