What do you say?

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Registered: 04-01-2012
What do you say?
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Wed, 04-11-2012 - 6:02pm
I told my crush we needed to talk (about the flirting, eye contact, smiles, etc) since I asked him to pretend I'm invisible but he can't seem to do it. He hasn't replied to me, and now I'm at a loss for what to actually say. I'd like to clear the air about what's going on, but I'm thinking he won't own up to anything (he's always been a pretty shy guy all the 15 years I've known him). I'm the type of person who thinks you are either in or out, I don't like any one foot in the door business. Apparently he does, and if that's all he's up for then I can (once again) tell him to consider me invisible. But....what do I actually say?? I've never had a conversation like this before and want to keep him open without shutting him out in my first 5 words. Some help with the verbiage??
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Registered: 04-01-2012
Sat, 04-14-2012 - 7:28am

No thoughts? Suggestions?

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Registered: 10-26-2010
Sat, 04-14-2012 - 8:12am
Is your crush married? Are you? Do you work together? How and why did you ask him to pretend your invisible? Perhaps he is just not good at handling intimate situation and talks. I guess my thoughts are, he is who he is and you can't change him. So then, does his style work for you? There could be a lot of things holding him back. Without knowing more about your situation it is hard to answer your question.
~Sunny~