what do you think............

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Registered: 11-12-2003
what do you think............
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Wed, 11-12-2003 - 10:48am
.....about this situation ? I, from what I can see, have been in (or maybe it is one sided) an emotional affair with a co-worker. I have worked w/ MM for 5 years and from the get go he always flirted with me. In fact he flirts w/ everyone. He is a really nice guy and over the years we have grown close. I talk about my relationship w/ my H w/ him and he every now and then mentions his W and their M. We have never discussed (other than joking) taking things further than what they are now and I am becoming impatient. All I want is for this man to take me in his arms and hold me or kiss me or anything. I am not sure he wants the same thing and I am afraid to make a move that would suggest my feelings. I am in fear that I would lose the frienship and closeness we have together, but I am having a hard time thinking of anything else but to just reach out to him. Especially when he walks in my office and tells me how good I look (in whatever I have on that day) or walks up behind me and tells me I smell so good. And then he has these incredible sexy eyes and gives me these looks like he could take me right there and it's all I can do to not give him what I think he wants. See how confused I am? Am I just nieve or imagining things ? Has anyone else had this to happen ?

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 2:17pm
Thanks I am gonna try real hard at the party to not lose it, but as in other years he and his W will probably sit with my H and I. I wonder if my H and his W have noticed the way we stare and steal glances ? I know my H obviously thinks nothing of it because MM has been to our new house one day when he was at work. I was all alone with MM and hurriedly showed him the house. I think he picked up on that while we were there. Damn there was my chance and I blew it. Maybe it's a sign that I am chicken or undecided.

Thanks girls!

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Registered: 09-30-2003
Wed, 11-12-2003 - 4:14pm
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Edited 10/1/2004 6:47 pm ET ET by sally289

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