What do you think about this......
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What do you think about this......
| Fri, 09-19-2003 - 10:37am |
Okay so I was with HIM the other night and we were having sex and then his GF called in the middle of it. But actually when she called, he was not IN me. But when she was talking to him for the short time this call went on, he was just kind of like uh huh, etc. cuz we were kind of ya know, busy? All of a sudden then, he whispered to me, to put it in. I'm like what? Um okay so I went about it and there we were ya know, doing it. Well she was going on talking about her class she was coming out of and she asked him what he was up to/doing etc. and he's said, "oh i'm hanging out w/ Tammy. We're going to go here and there or whatever" he said." It was like once SHE heard MY name she goes, "Oh (like a greaaat kind of thing)." And I could hear this whole conversation. I'm thinking to myself at the time, OMG this is crazy lol.
So at the end of the night, i said to him that he was bad for doing that (being saracstic) and he's like well we were inthe position, might as well have fun w/it right?
I'm like uhh yea.
So question is.......has anyone been in that situation in your A or do you have any comments? I think it's crazy. It may offend some of you , and i apologize in advance.
Thx
Tammy

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Yea I hear ya. It was sooooo weird though ! Cuz I was like OMG what are we doing? And he's been with this woman for six years ( they arent married either ) and its like geez she was just like yacking away and he was like uh huh and blowing her off. But anyway - you know what. I posted something too positive about this situation in the ENDING AN AFFAIR BOARD and two girls in there jumped my bones about it. I was like geez oops my bad. Wrong board...............
Tammylee
OTOH, EMAs are by their nature disrespectful, so I guess it's a matter of taste. I think it's in bad taste. (Don't forget - you asked, "what do you think about this?")
When OM and I are *really* in the middle of something, the cell phones are off. If they are on, we stop what we're doing to talk to our spouses and finish the call quickly. We respect that spouses come first.
Either way...that was just really skanky on his part. He was getting a cheap thrill out of that situation and he's a friggin' pig for doing that. It was disrespectful to you. The least he could do was either leave the room while on the phone or call her back. ANYTHING OTHER THAN WHAT HE DID!!! WHAT A FREAKIN PIG!!! I mean, unless you like that kind of thing, but from the sounds of it I don't think you do. It all depends on how you felt about it at the time. I'm sorry to sound so harsh and I hope I didn't offend you, it's just my opinion on him.
My comments?---YUCK!
I am not trying to sound rude, but you had to know when you posted this what the response would be.
This guys sounds like a real pig.
JMHO
RH
You asked and we answered... MM and I usually get together during a working day... in which he will get away from work and come and see me... because of this, he has to make up stories and will then divert his work phone to his mobile... and it is always left on.
Most times I can say... we are very lucky and the phone never rings... but there are days when it does... of course he will answer it... whatever we are doing... he has too. Most times it's been work collegues ringing him at work... and he quickly gets rid of them. I must admit... when I know it's just work... I have naughty thoughts of going up to him... but have always held back... I'm pretty sure that MM wouldn't mind... but I've not had the courage to do that yet.
However! if it was his wife... which has only happened once... he will get up and walk out of the room... and I would never even think of following him... that conversation is between them and it's private. The same goes for me and DH... if he happens to ring home during the day... more often than not I will let the machine pick it up... but if it's late and I have to answer it to not make things suspicious... I will walk away from MM... the conversation is between me and DH.
I think respect was mentioned somewhere in a few replies... and I really think that's what it's all about... if he was talking with his partner... if he has none... at least you should have a bit of respect and just walk away till he's finished.
Just my opinion though
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