What does it mean??

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Registered: 12-09-2009
What does it mean??
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 9:37am

So...A week ago we had not had contact in 2 days...besides what I was hearing from the W.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2007
Tue, 12-15-2009 - 1:34pm
Sounds like he just needs some time to think. Some space. Try not to contact him for a while. Let him clear his head. THat's what we all need sometimes. Then see where you two stand.
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Registered: 12-09-2009
Tue, 12-15-2009 - 1:50pm

nonchalant...Thank you for responding to this.

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 10:05am
I am so sorry you are going thru this. I am here for you and hope that you can get some comfort. I know it is so hard not contacting him. I have tried many times and failed but sometimes I can make myself do it. It drives you crazy wondering what he is thinking and thinking he might feel like you don't want him, but they don't think like we do. They are okay with some space. I am insecure and it took me a while to understand that but if he really cares for you, he will be there. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Have you talked to him or heard from him?
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Registered: 12-09-2009
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 10:36am

I haven't heard from him since that Monday night.

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Registered: 10-25-2007
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 8:44pm
I don't mind listening to you at all. That's what we're all here for. Ask, to your heart's content. I have discovered after a long time, that they don't need to hear from us all the time, like we think we do, from them. They don't think anything of it, if we don't contact them every day. They have lives too, and prob don't sit around worrying, like we do. He is going thru a lot right now and you have told him you're there. I would try to leave it at that. I know it's hard but you don't want to seem like a pest, which I am sure you're not, but you know what I mean. I have texted mine many times, with no response. It makes you want to hear from them even more but I think if you keep on, he might get mad. Just knowing you are there means a lot to him, I am sure. He is a lucky guy.
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Registered: 10-25-2007
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 8:44pm
Bitsy, please feel free to email me personally if you need to. I have turned on my email.