What Does This Mean?

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Registered: 03-23-2004
What Does This Mean?
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 11:58am
Bunny Here Again:

I have another question for the men, as well as the women..

I told my MM in person how I felt, but it

came out as .. " You know I am really Crazy for You"

He just smiled and said "yes, I know".., then we proceeded

to kiss. Do you believe he was flattered by this remark, or

just sloughed it off with his comment?


Thanks for the input, it was the fist time in 7 months I had

said anything about the way I feel......


Bunny

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 12:23pm
Sometimes when I'm with my MM, one of us will say something and the other person will respond with "I know." What we're really saying is "I know because I feel the same way." Of course, there's lots of ways to interpret it and I don't know your MM, but from my perspective, responding with "I know" isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Happy Day!

Jess

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Registered: 03-23-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 12:48pm
Thanks, jessiegirl. I wanted to hear that, that is how I took

it, but not being a man, I did not know just how to take it.

You made me feel better, and expressing how we feel to

our MM, without scaring them to death, I just wanted him

to know how I feel.....did not want to use the L word...

Thanks Again,

Bunny

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 1:26pm
I am so proud of you for telling him how you feel. I would think his reaction is positive, but that's just me. Was there any more discussion later on? Any other indications? By the way, I think I will try the crazy for you thing myself and see what happens lol.
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Registered: 03-23-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 5:32pm
Sorry it took so long for a response. I think he liked it also, usually

if I get a little carried away he says to slow down...don't rush

anything.which I guess is a good sign. If he wanted me fast and

furious then he probably would be gone now.

The only other time I said is, was on the phone once, and he

yes baby i know, again.....same response.

I have not said it anymore since. Everything else is

going well for us. He did say, whenever he hears the

Madonna Song "Crazy for You" he does think of me.

Nice compliment.

Let me know how your crazy goes for you.

Nadine

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Registered: 04-10-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 11:45pm
bunny

I don't know, I wouldn't be too thrilled with an "I know." But then again, men like to SHOW how they feel, and I *think* men are more likely to do so if they don't feel like they are being pressured to do so...I wouldn't say anything else...let it go, don't say anything more, and show him how you feel through your actions...see how he responds. JMO