What is going on with him - how dare he

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Registered: 10-25-2008
What is going on with him - how dare he
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Sat, 10-25-2008 - 8:20pm

Ok..well I have been off and on this board for the past two years. I have been seeing my ap for 2.5 years. Neither of us want to leave our spouses. It is what it is. We meet about everyother week. Well, it has always been difficult to get in touch with him. He sucks at calling people back. Well, he says to call his office. I have in the past and it feels weird so I would rather call his cell phone. Well, yesterday I texted him about 6 times asking him to tell me the time for Tuesday night. I have to make sure I have a story and my son is taken care of. Well, he texts back about 6 hours later in CAPS saying that First and Most important, I hate texting and my wife wants to know who has been texting me. I was so hot and angry!! I texted him right back and told him I understood and thought he was at work. Then told him it would never happen again. Then about 3 minutes later, I decided to call his phone. It went to the message and I told him that I was sorry and that it would not happen again. I also told him that he may or may not know that I have to set up babysitter, hubby or whatever to make sure my son is cared for while I am out with him. All I needed from him was a yes or no about Tuesday night. I then told him I would call him on Monday. Needless to say I sounded very direct on his voice mail.

How selfish can he be?? Boy I am ticked! My plan is to talk to him Monday, see his Tuesday for our meeting night and then cool it with talking with him. He has always told me to contact him b/c my schedule is very strange. That is fine - but he does not always call me back in time..etc...blah blah blah.

Anyways..thanks for letting me vent....

any ideas?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 6:46am
OMG...all of that sounds so much like my AP!!!

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