What has your OM/MM done for you........

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What has your OM/MM done for you........
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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 1:47pm
that totally proved his love/feelings for you?

This weekend, I had a crisis, I had no one I could call and I was desperate. One of our rules is NEVER to call at home on weekends. Well, he was the only one I could think of to help me. I really couldn't explain why I needed him to do what I needed, but that it was an emergency. He believed me and waited until Monday for an explanation from me. It was late at night and he pulled through like a state trooper for me. He really went WAY out of his way just for me. And no, I Did NOT even see him this weekend. He just went and did what I needed and that was that. After this weekend I truly felt like he was a TRUE friend that I KNOW for sure without a doubt I can count on in times of need.

What has your OM/MM done for you to verify that you could count on him? Has he EVER gone out of his way just to help you or to prove his devotion to you or to prove his "love" for you?

I could EASILY fall in love with this MM. I know that he REALLY does care for me the way he says he does.

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 10-29-2003 - 1:54pm
om has really helped me get through my father's death. he seems to always know what to say and will just let me cry even though we have little time with each other.
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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 2:00pm
I don't want to trivialize what your OM does for you, but I can help you with that and you can cry on my shoulder. Has he EVER gone WAY out of his way for you? Has he ever put himself in jeopardy for you? Has he ever done something for you that nobody else would or could do for you? Has he risked his life for you? I'm talking about stuff like that. Something nobody else could or would do for you.

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 10-29-2003 - 2:02pm
being that i'm married and we live 2,000 miles apart..we aren't in a situation where he can do anything like that for me.
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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 2:44pm
Mine ROCKED my world, yesterday! :):):) NMR
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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 3:27pm
It's the little things MM says and does that proves his love for me. He tells me all the time how lucky he is to have me, how beautiful I am, how I'm the perfect package, etc. He writes me poems, composes me songs, sends me cards, etc. He is the quintessential tough-talking but soft-hearted New Yorker and makes my toes curl both physically and emotionally. And when this man, who has a mile-high glass wall around him, tells me he's in love with me.....I've never doubted it. It's my gut that tells me it's the real thing, not a specific instance.

 

ItalianPisces

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Wed, 10-29-2003 - 3:44pm
most loving thing that my mm done for me is in sept of 94. l came home from hospital l had thyriod caner sugery. he came out of his way to be with me and make sure l was doing alrigth from cancer.he was so worry about me show to me he loves me and cares alot about me.when he was here past jan for news years holiday we got spend the holiday together he ask how feeling awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.to me meant so much to me he care enough about how doing. kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 09-23-2003
Wed, 10-29-2003 - 9:58pm
lol @ nmr

This may sound strange, my OM has never risked his life for me or anything like that. But like others said he picks me up when I am down, he will rush home from work if he knows I am having a hard day, so that he can call to make sure I am ok. But what one thing he did do that showed me how much he cared, what you may think is strange, is when I was going through a really really hard time with things and asked that he let me be for awhile until I figure things out, he did. And when I figured things out and hoped and prayed nothing had changed between us, he welcomed me with open arms and reminded me of how much he loves me. That meant the world to me.

Sweettendencies

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Registered: 09-03-2003
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 11:02am
This is a little thing but I had a piece of jewelry that was broken one day and when I mentioned it in front of MM, he took it and went all over the place trying to find something to fix it with. He then fixed it. I know it's simple, but it made me feel like he was taking care of me. Then there was one time he lost something on his computer and he called me for advice on finding it. I was able to retrieve it and save him hours of work, which I guess meant I did something for him, but it really meant a lot to me that he thought to call me to help him. Sometimes some of the things he does, right in front of people, just make me feel really special. People have started putting us together as sort of an accepted "friendship" around here and that makes me feel bonded to him in some way. If they can't track me down they ask him and vice versa. When people pick on me he'll jokingly glare at them and say, "That's my woman. Don't be talking to her that way." I guess what I'm saying is, it's the little things. I think his W has beaten him down so much by being so independent and never asking for help that the fact that I'm willing to go to him if I need something and play the dumb, helpless blond really makes him feel important. He brings that out in me... In every other facet of my life I'm fiercely independent. But when I'm around him I just want him to pick me up and carry me away and take care of me! He did say one day that if there is a bomb threat called in, he'll be hauling butt out of the building as quickly as possible, but only AFTER he'd rescued me. So I guess that means he'd put his life on the line for me? Who knows? He's the type of guy who probably would do his best to save as many people as possible if push came to shove. He talks a mean game, but deep down he's just a softie.
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Thu, 10-30-2003 - 4:00pm
Still curious. What does he do on a regular basis as well?

Whenever MM goes out of town, he calls me M-F just to speak with me and see how I'm doing, find out what I'm wearing, and just to say he misses me. I love that too.

Okay, I didn't admit it before, and this is the first time I'm publicly admitting it, but:

I think I'm in love w/MM.

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Fri, 10-31-2003 - 8:56am
MM tells me I'm beautiful, I'm gorgeous, whatever. Daily. When I visit him at his office and people all around can hear, I'll be chattering about insignificant junk and he'll just mouth the words, "You're beautiful." I can't say anything in return because I have to try to keep the conversation up so no one will know what's going on. The little jokes he tells, the way he picks on me. But most of all, it's just the way he looks at me. A whole world of thoughts is captured in that one, intense look. That's how this whole thing started...with him suddenly looking at me one day as though a miracle had just walked into his life. Once he asked me if we ever were to get married, how would he know I'd stay faithful. I said, as long as you continue to look at me like that, as far as I'm concerned no other man exists. Of course, that look probably doesn't have longevity. I'm sure once we were married he'd be like every other man and start taking me for granted...

I feel like I'm falling in love with my MM as well. But next week I may hate him. Depends if the wind changes and he turns back into Dr. Jeckyl again. (Or was Mr. Hyde the bad one? Have no idea...) There have only been two times I've seen him really tense and worried about something and earlier this week was the second time. This time even more than the last it really bothered me to see him like that. I just wanted to put my arms around him and tell him it would be okay. That's how I know I have actually come to care about him. But LOVE? I'm not so sure about that. I love being around him and have fun with him and don't want to see him hurt. I think love is something that's built over time, and we haven't had enough consistency for me to really fall in love with him fully. Yet I tell him I love him, which is probably a really bad thing to do... I resisted doing it for a long, long time and this week I've told him twice (both times reciprocating what he'd said). I'm vowing right here and now that I'm not doing that again until I'm sure.

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