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what is he thinking
| Sun, 01-04-2004 - 7:21pm |
I would like to give you a little background befor I ask you a question. I was married since the age of 17 and that was 16 years ago. Now I am divorced and have a really good life except for the fact that I am lonely and don't really know how to tell if a man is comming onto me, flirting or just being really friendly. OK here is my problem I met this really nice older man. When we met he told me he was single so I asked him out to coffee and he excepted. Then we were unable to keep our date so we played phone tag to try to arrange another date but when we were unable to connect I just gave up telling hem we would try again when things weren't so busy but he kept calling untill he reached me and set a date. Then when we were out in our corse of conversation he mentioned his girlfriend. So what were the hours we spent talking, him walking me to my car or what does it mean when he has great eye contact and actually remembers things I say in passing or makes comments about my outfit. is he flirting or just being nice? and how do I make him want more
Also I saw him just a couple of days ago and he went out of his way at least 3 times to talk to me and his girlfiend was their.

It could be he is just being nice are fatherly, or he and his G/F have an open relationship and she does not mind him playing around a bite or they could like threesumes.
IF he likes to step out on her you may want to consider if that is something you want to invest your time and emotions in or not it can be pretty tought.
Your a single girl just finding your feet ,lonly are not try not to rush into anything tell you understand what you are getting into, read some posts they can be real eye openers.
TRYING
The fact that he brought the G/F along (she was getting a look at you) could suggest the threesome Idea would you be ok with haveing sex with a woman (some people like it).
TRYING