What if he says the "L " word?
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What if he says the "L " word?
| Fri, 04-30-2004 - 1:08am |
We must have spent two hours on the phone tonite. I couldnt get away to see him. We had our second big discussion the other day. We were together a few nites ago and I asked him how many times he had "messed around" in his marriage. He said" Ow. Are you trying to slap me in the face?" I told him no that I was just curious. His response was "3-3.5" He asked me and "I said just you." He kind of freaked out. He didnt know that and I thought he did.
Tonite we just talked and I swear he said "I love you" all sly and quick in the middle of something alot less serious. Two minutes later he called me "Honey" and when I pointed it out he called me "Precious" I advised him to always tell me the truth about what he thinks and how he feels.
I think he"s going to say it. I don't know if I am ready to hear it.
What ride this has been..

If you want to keep this man don't push the "I love you" issue. Just enjoy and keep things light. Have fun or else he will find someone else to have fun with.
Make him hunger for you by creating as much sexual tension as possible and he will be yours. Don't be so quick to tell him you love him, instead show him. Men love the chase, make him work for you. If you give yourself easily then your value will go down. Show him you are worthy.
Just my thoughts,
Good Luck
HFL
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I'll let ya know if and when he does. I'm glad you all are here. I don't know if I could keep it alll in. He has a friend or two that know about us. i can't tell anyone.