What is most romantic thing u have done?

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Registered: 04-25-2003
What is most romantic thing u have done?
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 9:29pm
I want to do something special for mm. I cannot give him anything the his w will find or question. What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for MM,OM etc?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 4:13pm
When my MM came back from a business trip (after being gone for 2 weeks) I took a day of vacation (when I was separated from H) and so did he. He met me at a hotel. Before he got there, I had a bottle of wine on ice, vanilla candles burning, the bed was turned down, and I had a slinky negligee on. He came into the room and I made him face the wall. I wrapped my arms around him from behind and started undressing him....we made love 4 times that day. Wish we could do that again. Nice to day-dream about though.

om4m

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Registered: 04-25-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 8:41pm
Thank you everyone for all your advise. It is hard doing something special for him since he is married. H is home gotta run
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Registered: 05-24-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 10:04pm
I think a lot of romance is in trying to make each other's life a little bit easier, a little more special, a little better simply because the two of you are together. Thoughtfulness. OM and I work together and we routinely take care of each other's districts, prepare timesheets, etc. on each other's off days.

We send love notes every day; usually more than one.

What OM does for me that just melts my heart...he took note of my favorite snacking food. One is legal (I am on the Atkins Diet) and he keeps my desk well stocked. And one isn't legal (bite-sized Snickers, only 10g of carbs, lol!!) and he keeps that in his office but I have full access to it for nights when I'm having a bad time of it because of my H, or the stress of it all. He's bought me cases of diet soda to keep in the refrigerator at work. He's fixed his second car so that when I leave my husband, I have a car that fits me and all four kids. He knows that my rock and roll soothes my frazzled nerves, so he bought me a cd player and tape converter for my van so that I could listen to my music during work and after I've had a distressing argument with H, whatever. (I've killed my FM radio in my car somehow.)

Pure, unadulterated desire to please in bed is good. Making it about the other person and not our own selves is VERY romantic to us.

OM is much better at being romantic than I am.

HTH

Lucky

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Registered: 07-09-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 9:46am
hi there...the most romantic thing i did for my MM was this past christmas i presented him some flavored massage oil and nice scented candle...with a small bottle or his favorite drink & some nice chocolate...dressed in a santa teddy....and woooooooohoooooooo did he appreciate it...hehe...it was really nice..of course the timing has to b right...we were spending a weekend together when i did this...so he actually didn't get it right on xmas day....but oh it was christmas for both of us believe me....and i tormented him b4 i gave him his gift....saying oh have i got something for u...giving him little hints ...which there were so many little things in the gift bag that there was no way he could figure it out...lol...it was so much fun getting this together for him...

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