what people say

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Registered: 05-10-2004
what people say
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 10:05pm
Went to lunch w/ two friends and the topic of affaris came up. They were miltant on their disapproval for anyone who would be in a A w/ a MM. I mentioned I had a "friend" who is in a affair w/ a MM who lives out of town. I said maybe they were giving each other somthing that their M could not. While I admit I may be in denial I do know that the MM I am seeing (rarely) is filling a space left empty by my failing marriage. We both can't won't leave our M at this time. So if we all know that we are in the wrong why to we contuine it? I know that I seem to crave what the MM gives me more then I ever did w/ spouse. Why is that I wonder?

Anyone care to share some thougts on this matter?
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In reply to: over40il
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 7:39am
I have a different connection with my mm then I do with my H. I don't know how else to explain it except that I want to do more things in bed with mm and he is different at his love making techniques than my H and I enjoy it. I also can open up more to mm than my H both sexually and emotionally. My H has always been defensive whenever we have had serious discussions.. mm is a much more calm person. He is also a fearless businessman where my H is always nervous about stepping outside the box and taking ANY kind of risk. I think I find that an attractive trait in my MM. I don't want his money I just think that he is maybe more of a man because of it? I don't know I just know that MM SEEMS like the total package to me.

Love his sexy accent tooooo!

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