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| Mon, 09-29-2008 - 7:20pm |
What prompted your A...
I think a lot of women especially over 30 think men are looking for someone younger , prettier, thiner basically it all about looks but I don't agree.
I haven't had an A but when I'm tempted its not for that reason. I think for me it would about wanting to feel wanted and desired.
A lot of women on seeing the AP are aghast because they often are not younger or prettier so they cant understand the motivation. I think in a lot of cases its that the AF is making the
spouse feel desired, attractive and wanted sexually.
Do you think that is accurate?

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Well, is it bad to say I'm glad there is another person that feels the way I do? :)
I've only
Thats hard for me to pin down....
Partly because at times I'm tempted and maybe I am trying to understand those feelings..
A bit of just general curiosity...
A bit of my own feeling around monogamy...I have always valued commitment but within that I've never been as concerned about fidelity...
like I said it's complex, I'm not sure if I did good job explaining it.
edited for privacy
Edited 10/23/2008 8:54 am ET by goddess_edwina
"Newness" That's exactly it... the thrill of that new relationship!
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