What should I do? Help!
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What should I do? Help!
| Thu, 02-26-2004 - 4:38am |
New at this. Need some help. I'm married with 2 small children. Well it all started about 9 months ago. I started a discreet relationship w/ husbands permission. Now the "other person" is wanting my kids to call him daddy, he says he wants to have a baby with me, and even wants me to have his name tatooed on me. Is it just me or has this gone WAY to far? Did I mention he is married with children of his own. How do I get him to back off and just enjoy it while it last? Any advice?

Hot
Well I assume you want to keep things fun and not too serious. This guy sounds like he's a little too obsessed with you (for whatever reason)than what you were probably looking for.
Maybe you'll have to let him know what your expectations were and what his role in them are (i.e. sex only, not willing to leave your H, not looking for someone to father another baby). I can't imagine you or your H would want your kids to start calling this guy daddy!! You better lay it on the line to him what he can expect from you and if he can't handle it, maybe he's not the right guy to be fooling around with.
Dusty
hey kristin -- it's not you, because it sounds to me (and several other posters too) that this OM is somewhat crazy.
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