what should i say to him

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2009
what should i say to him
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Fri, 09-11-2009 - 6:20pm

Hi everyone,


Hope you can help me. Am quite desperate.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 6:25am
stay away from him and suggest he find a single girlfriend






iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2009
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 9:42am
What else can i add to that? Blunt but truthful. Sometimes have to call them as you see them.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2009
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 11:50am

Hi,


Thanks for the response. I know I should run as far as possible from this man.


But there are lots of emotional attachment.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-13-2009
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 12:07pm
Sounds like your story is similiar to mine....Is your marriage happy?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 8:20am

Hi,


Yes, my marriage is happy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 6:15pm
Can I just say how glad I am to read your post! I am in the same boat! I am married happily but am finding myself attracted to this guy I work with. He is cute, fun, etc. We aren't looking for long term love just having fun. And it is kind of exciting to have someone be nice to you and pay attention. Anyway I'll post more later, but I wanted to say Hi and that I agree!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2009
Tue, 09-15-2009 - 6:00pm

A reality check....


Yes, an affair "feels" amazing, the ego boost, the "high", the compliments, the desirability, the "ache" for him, his "ache" for you....