What should I tell him?
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| Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:45am |
I've been chatting online with a MM for 5-6 months and we met 3 months ago but I had become involved with someone several days before we were to meet. I didn't call off our meeting because I still wanted to meet him. Things didn't work with the other MM and all this time this MM was there for me to talk to. He said he had met somebody and they started seeing each other. I let him know I was interested and he said he wasn't giving her up until he saw where it went with us. This was a month ago and we're still talking but he still hasn't made a decision. I told him I wasn't looking for anybody else.
We're suppose to meet in a couple of weeks and a male friend told me not to meet him because it will lead to sex and he's still involved with her. He said I need to tell him to make a choice. I've felt so bad about the way that I did him that I've felt he needed the time to see that I'm sincere but I can't keep hanging by a thread.
Should I just spill out my feelings to him and tell him to make a choice now? Do you think he's had enough time for this?

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