What a way to start the week

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Registered: 01-14-2004
What a way to start the week
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Mon, 04-19-2004 - 11:01am
So after a fight with my W last night, I woke up this morning angry. I got around and got my son in the car and we headed off. On the way to work, I noticed a police officer had pulled someone over. As I glanced over, I failed to notice traffic was stopped right in front of me. I slammed into the vehicle in front of me and my airbags deployed. My son and I and the people in the other car were all fine. The other vehicle had minor damage. But mine has probably upwards of $10,000 damage. My insurance will cover it and I won't be dropped, but my rates will probably go up $20 per month. Not to mention I was just about ready to buy out of my lease early. I literally had the loan papers with me. Now I have no idea what will happen. But I suppose the important thing is everyone was okay. I'm still a little shaken. My whole body feels sore and I have a headache. Anyway, I guess that is enough whining for today. It just was not how I wanted to start the week. Hope you all had a better Monday morning.
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Registered: 03-30-2004
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 4:12pm
oh omaha honey, i'm soooo glad you're okay and your son too! it's a bit__h to be distracted, especially because of the argument last night and then this happens too! but it's just a car and it can be replaced. and after it's repaired, don't buy out the lease. that car will never be the same.

just hang in there and relax a bit, if that's possible. your W is getting near the end of the pregnanacy and i'm sure she is feeling very scared of the future by herself, with 2 children. i know, i know, you'll be there as much as you possibily can be, but it's still not the same as living in the same house and being able to step right into a situation. you're both on edge and your mind is a thousand miles away, literally.

at this point, try to take it one day at a time and make sure you keep your eyes on the road ahead! take care of yourself and those aches and pains. you'll feel better in a few days. it's the images in your head that will take longer to get rid of.

stay focused and strong. hugs to you, omaha.

life

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 5:27pm
First of all, thank you to everyone for your concern. Against a lot of people's advice, I stayed at work all day. My shoulder and back are aching a bit and my head hurts, but I took some ibuprofen earlier and will take more soon.

I talked to the body shop once so far and they didn't have an estimate yet, but did tell me it wasn't all that bad. I'm torn about whether to buy the car or not (by the way Rain, it is a 2001 Mazda Tribute). The wholesale value on the vehicle is about $12,000 and I can buy it for $11,800. I don't think there is any engine damage, just radiator damage. I don't really even know if I can just turn it in since there was such a large repair to it. And I'm pretty sure I couldn't get a vehicle as nice as this one in the same price range (retail it would cost about $15,000 at least). Any ideas what I should do?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 6:52pm
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Edited 4/24/2004 4:28 pm ET ET by julietsfate
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Registered: 03-19-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 9:05am
we must be connected - I had an accident on Sunday after visiting my OM's parents. Other car was totaled, and mine is somewhat ok, but I got cited. They were all hurt. I'm just hoping that nothing legal comes of this...I'm just trying to come up with the deductible now. Good luck - hang in there. I'm understanding your feelings completely!

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 9:16am
Omaha,

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Registered: 03-30-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 10:03am
hi omaha. how are you feeling today? probably a little worse, huh. sorry sweetie. keep taking that ibuprofen!

if the shop tells you that the engine is okay and the block is not cracked or shifted, then you can seriously consider buying the car, especially if you feel it's a good price. make a command decision after you get the damage checked out AND if you trust the mechanic. good luck with that!

life

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 12:25pm
Thanks again everyone. I'm happy to report that I feel better today and my son seems just fine. No bruises or soreness for him at all. He did wake up early this A.M. crying, but it turns out it was only because he was congested and couldn't breathe. So all is well on that front.

They are still looking at the car to make sure on the damage. The engine is completely fine. The radiator will have to be replaced and they're looking to see if the frame might be slightly bent. The person doing the estimate said based on what she has seen so far, she would buy it if it was a good price. The damage should be completely repairable and good as or better than new.

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Registered: 03-30-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 12:28pm
jeez, omaha, what a difference a day makes!! glad to see all is well and progress is being made insofar as your decision to buy or not to buy. keep up the positive attitude.

life

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Registered: 01-14-2004
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 12:31pm
Thanks life. Yes, my positive attitude seems to resonate no matter what hand I'm dealt lately. To be honest, my sense of self is stronger and better than it has probably ever been in my life. I'd like to take some credit for myself, but IS does have a lot to do with it. I don't take my happiness from her, that comes from within. But when I see myself through her eyes, I gain so much confidence and resolve. It's a wonderful feeling. She called me like 5 times yesterday to be sure I was okay. :)
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 04-20-2004 - 12:39pm
Send some of this positive attitude my way, Omaha. Glad to hear you are OK, man.