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What a web I have woven
| Fri, 03-20-2009 - 5:44pm |
I have so woven my life now I do not know what to do. Some ideas please. I was with AP until about six months ago when he told me he could not

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Hi -
I haven't posted in a LONG time but your story is a lot like mine:
-- I am friends with his wife and the children are friends also.
bubbles/fourful,
I just wanted to send hugs out to you both.
Fourfurkids,
Thanks Maystone -
I try to console myself in the same way.
This is so similar to my situation.
Dear next_to _you,
Thanks Bubbles.
Hey Bubbles and Next -
It's helpful to read your posts.
Yes, you can't hope for something to continue if it's just not there.
Thank you for your kind and honest words. It does feel good to have someone to talk to about this. I have never had that prior to this posting.
I have stepped back to a point. I am not the one calling him, I let him call me and so far those calls have been at the same frequency as when we stopped the A over six months ago. I hope that by doing that the pain will lessen to a point that if or when he doesn't call anymore I will not be devastated just sad.
As for focusing on my home life. I have put everything into my son and his life, he is 15 so I will not be able to do that forever. My relationship with my husband has not been the greatest for a very long time now, but this is not the place for that story. So as you suggested I am going to try to work harder at my home life and just keep my options open when it comes to this situation.
I may take you up on emailing you at your profile.
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