What a web I have woven

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Registered: 03-20-2009
What a web I have woven
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Fri, 03-20-2009 - 5:44pm

I have so woven my life now I do not know what to do. Some ideas please. I was with AP until about six months ago when he told me he could not

Wicked Web Woven

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Registered: 01-12-2004
Fri, 03-20-2009 - 7:23pm

Hi -


I haven't posted in a LONG time but your story is a lot like mine:


-- I am friends with his wife and the children are friends also.

 

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Registered: 03-07-2009
Fri, 03-20-2009 - 8:03pm

bubbles/fourful,


I just wanted to send hugs out to you both.

maystone
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Registered: 03-20-2009
Fri, 03-20-2009 - 9:22pm

Fourfurkids,


Wicked Web Woven
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Registered: 01-12-2004
Mon, 03-23-2009 - 5:33pm

Thanks Maystone -


I try to console myself in the same way.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2008
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 2:41pm

This is so similar to my situation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 4:14pm

Dear next_to _you,


Wicked Web Woven
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Registered: 03-31-2008
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 4:32pm

Thanks Bubbles.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2004
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 4:59pm

Hey Bubbles and Next -


It's helpful to read your posts.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2008
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 5:25pm

Yes, you can't hope for something to continue if it's just not there.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2009
Tue, 03-24-2009 - 5:43pm

Thank you for your kind and honest words. It does feel good to have someone to talk to about this. I have never had that prior to this posting.


I have stepped back to a point. I am not the one calling him, I let him call me and so far those calls have been at the same frequency as when we stopped the A over six months ago. I hope that by doing that the pain will lessen to a point that if or when he doesn't call anymore I will not be devastated just sad.


As for focusing on my home life. I have put everything into my son and his life, he is 15 so I will not be able to do that forever. My relationship with my husband has not been the greatest for a very long time now, but this is not the place for that story. So as you suggested I am going to try to work harder at my home life and just keep my options open when it comes to this situation.


I may take you up on emailing you at your profile.

Wicked Web Woven

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