What would you do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2007
What would you do?
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Mon, 09-15-2008 - 8:57am

Well I've been here on MAS and over on EAS. I really don't know where I should be. Because when I think I am over and done with my AP, he convinces me that he cares and loves me and I'm back on the rollercoaster ride.


A little background on my story,

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 9:21am

If I were you, I would end the A.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2008
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 2:24pm


Get out of the A. It's not healthy and from what you've found, he's a player. Maybe he's too busy to see you because he has these other women to fit in! Even if he's not, do you really need this much stress?

Be careful too. I don't know what your work is like but my employers would fire me on the spot if I accessed company records for personal business - you definitely can't tell him what you've been up to.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 1:39am
The answer is staring you right in the face via the phone bill and his behavior around that other woman. He is absolutely involved with her. I would bet the farm on it. I don't talk to anyone from my work at 11:00 at night for 80 minutes and then text them. No way, no how. You are being played like a violin. Get out of this mess. You don't need this heartache. You don't mention what the status of your marriage is or what the reasons are for your affair, but if you love your husband, I would stop all focusing on this clown and put it on your marriage. You made a mistake. It's ok. We all do. The beauty of it is you can learn from it and do differently. Please, just get out of this. To stay in it is self-abuse.