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| Tue, 08-26-2003 - 9:52am |
So this is my dilemma.....do I fess up and tell him that I know he is a jerk!, do I not say anything and just tell him, it's time we move on and keep my secret to myself, or do I ask him to meet me for drinks...in 2 weeks.... A large group of my DH friends and I are going out to a birthday dinner, so should I ask him to sit at the bar and wait for me his mystery date (who is never going to show) and then have him see me walk in with my H and our friends........ and he can then add 2 + 2! and No he would never make a scence or say something because #1 we work in the same company, and he is doesn't want his wife to ever find out. and I think he knows that if he were to do something like that.... I would then retialiate. I just want to make him feel like a fool....like he made me feel.
I am so angry, and hurt right now.... I feel like an idiot.... but of course what do I expect? right? GRRRRRR didn't sleep all night, so upset. So my cyber friends... tell me what you think I should do.

It's a completely different story though, if you want to see him again. I guess the 'best' thing to do would be to confront him...if that is the case for you. I personally don't think that much about people talking 'online' but meeting is just a whole nother story, ya know? But evidently...that's what he was looking for, you just need to decide for yourself what you want from this for yourself first, then either confront him or let him go. That's just my two cents worth anyway.
Hugs to You!!
PR
But hindsight is 20/20.
and No I don't want to humiliate myself, I didn't see it that way. I am just so angry and hurt. I feel stupid!
Thanks again PR!
Hugs to You
PR