what is wrong with me

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Registered: 10-06-2003
what is wrong with me
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Wed, 10-22-2003 - 11:17am
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Edited 9/20/2004 1:28 pm ET ET by seansluv
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Wed, 10-22-2003 - 12:12pm
seansluv maybe your OM is mentally not ready to reveal his personal details to you - some of them take a long time to get closer to you. He probably thinks you will starting disliking him once he startS to open up or something. I know my OM does that, he think I am going to start hating him about something from his past and won't tell me until he really has to. I let him take his time that way he won't feel forced into it.
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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 10-22-2003 - 12:23pm
but don't you think after almost 5 years of talking..and the fact that he wants me to leave dh for him that he should.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Wed, 10-22-2003 - 12:56pm
I did not know you are in your A for 5 years, I thought it was 3 yrs. Anyway, I have been in mine for only 6 months now, so mine is different from your situation. Good luck!
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Registered: 10-06-2003
Wed, 10-22-2003 - 1:12pm
i'll be married 5 years next month. met om roughly 6 months after getting married. we've been on and off quite a lot though.