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What is your definition of LOVE
| Thu, 11-20-2003 - 1:11pm |
When I told MM that I loved him, and he returned with I love you too. I assumed that love meant the same thing to him, as it did to me.
I believe when you commit to saying I love you, that means you are ready to put that person first and foremost in your life. That you are willing to sacrifice for them, at all cost. That you are willing to put Love into action, and that it is not just a word. I take it serious, and those are not words to play with. Unfortunate for me MM did not feel the same way.

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I don't think it is a matter of putting someone first in foremost, because sometimes it is not possible. Think about it, aren't there times when you have had to say no to someone you love?? It isn't because you don't love them but because sometimes life doesn't always operate on our schedule.
It doesn't mean that MM doesn't love you - perhaps it is that he doesn't express it the way that you WANT him to.
my definition of love is ever-evolving, depending on the day and time (and person!) but i do love my BF and MM because those two guys are the only ones in the whole world i would spend any time with, physically and/or emotionally.
i believe communication is one key aspect of love, as is understanding and compassion. and more than one or two common interests to share when the passion ebbs. and good, steady sex on a regular basis (whatever that means for you and him), and some mind-blowing sex on those wine-soaked evenings doesn't hurt either.
i don't have the aching heart, but my pulse does a little jump when i see MM. he just turns me on so much. i doubt i'd feel the same if MM and i were together 24/7, but who knows.
i'm enjoying my life now because it's the way i want to live it - my choice, not someone else dictating the direction.
see ya,
gurl
goodgirl said it... Ditto! amiless :)
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Edited 11/24/2003 7:24:45 PM ET by xterra2003
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