What is your final straw?
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What is your final straw?
| Wed, 05-13-2009 - 4:20pm |
I know people stay for different reasons. However, what is the deal breaker for some of you? What will make you say enough is enough? For you single people.....do you ever feel like you are maybe missing out on a chance to meet someone who might really want to be with you and only you? For the married people...what will make you decide to stay married or divorce?

As for me...I know for certain I no longer want to stay married. AND...no matter what happens...I believe I don't want to re-marry...not my AP...nor anyone else...least not at this moment.
What is keeping me in the M now is strictly financial. And maybe some guilt. More likely...I am not sure of my own footing right now. I know though that my AP has shown me what it is to be TRULY loved...feelings I never experienced with my H, but i knew should've been there. I just thought that if I got too picky, well...I would never be able to find "the one" and was just "asking too much".
My AP showed me how that was just not true.