What is your final straw?

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Registered: 06-12-2007
What is your final straw?
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Wed, 05-13-2009 - 4:20pm
I know people stay for different reasons. However, what is the deal breaker for some of you? What will make you say enough is enough? For you single people.....do you ever feel like you are maybe missing out on a chance to meet someone who might really want to be with you and only you? For the married people...what will make you decide to stay married or divorce?
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Registered: 05-13-2009
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 4:36pm
I have 3 kids who made any relationship I had very hard. I got to the point where they were so used to having my undivided attention that anyone who came in the picture they would eventually run off. Then came the MM and I thought someone just for me. He was looking for the same. We managed to keep it a secret from the two older kids till they went to college. He was a gift so I am able to live a happy peaceful life.
Scar
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Registered: 04-21-2009
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 5:58pm

As for me...I know for certain I no longer want to stay married. AND...no matter what happens...I believe I don't want to re-marry...not my AP...nor anyone else...least not at this moment.


What is keeping me in the M now is strictly financial. And maybe some guilt. More likely...I am not sure of my own footing right now. I know though that my AP has shown me what it is to be TRULY loved...feelings I never experienced with my H, but i knew should've been there. I just thought that if I got too picky, well...I would never be able to find "the one" and was just "asking too much".


My AP showed me how that was just not true.