What's up all the whining

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Registered: 09-16-2003
What's up all the whining
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 2:24pm
My OM has been drving me up the wall with his whining lately. Its all about him and the holidays looming and nobody around him to share the holiday cheer. Hello???? What about me? Do I ever get a break?!?!?! Noooooo.....

So I went over to his place to settle things "amicably" and that did make a difference in the attitude. All the "goodies" he got today will hopefully last till the New Year's time and afterwards I might have to give him some again. Ha!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 12-15-2003 - 2:39pm
that's the way to "shut" him up juliet!! you go girl -- make him want it more..... after the new year, of course!!

gurl

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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 2:47pm
You are too wicked, gurl!! :) Yeah, that is only way to shut him up! LOL
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 2:55pm
i have the opposite with my MM -- he's complaining that i'm too busy with holiday stuff to pay any attention to him.

gurl




Edited 2/18/2004 12:59:03 PM ET by gurlfriend50
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 3:05pm
Men, there is like nothing sex to fix them up! LOL And yeah the wait is well worth it!!


Edited 12/15/2003 3:06:50 PM ET by julietsfate
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 3:08pm
I WISH MM were whiny. :-( Maybe they get more clingy after sex but MM doesn't seem to be able to squeeze a minute out for me anymore. We have just this week and a little bit of next before we're apart until after the first of the year and all I want are just a few conversations. No big thing. I'm thinking maybe I just need to start separating from him emotionally to prepare for being without him for a while. A warm-up of sorts? I don't know. Or maybe I just need to go out and find a brand new lover...someone who actually CALLS just to say he misses me and is thinking about me. Does such a man exist?
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 3:42pm
hugs to you lilah! love yourself first honey and don't put up with anyone's crap and/or disrepect -- MM included. if he doesn't have time for you then holding back a little to protect yourself and your emotions will carry you through the holiday period. also throwing yourself into the holidays, visiting, wrapping, baking cookies, whatever keeps you happy and not too focused on what MM might or might not be doing, is always good too!

gurl




Edited 2/18/2004 12:47:54 PM ET by gurlfriend50
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Mon, 12-15-2003 - 3:51pm
Yes the MM who call, tell you they miss you and are thinking about you do exist.I know because I have one of them. WE make time for each other.

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