What's up with MM?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
What's up with MM?
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Fri, 01-09-2004 - 3:53pm
I totally don't understand him. I still haven't heard from him and he's been online I know, for a few hours this morning and now a couple hours again this afternoon. Meanwhile its a user id he says he only uses for talking to me, so why does he sign in if he has no intentions of talking to me? Because he must know I can see he's there.

Unless he's busy and can't talk yet? I don't get it...
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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Sat, 01-10-2004 - 5:22am
Who knows whats up with these men and why they do or say what they do. I really wish I could understand them better. If you figure it out let me know

SB

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 07-27-2003
Sat, 01-10-2004 - 10:36am
Hey dusty

Don't know...do you think he is seeing someone else as well? I'm sure this thought has crossed your mind over the past few months.

Charlotte

 

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Sun, 01-11-2004 - 12:41pm
i think he's waiting for you to say something first. now that you've sort of ignored him, hes wondering.
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sun, 01-11-2004 - 2:54pm
Well first of all, I don't think he's seeing anyone else. I'm 99% sure, if he's going to see anyone, its me. Maybe you are right about waiting for me to contact him first. But i did send a little email message last week, he didn't respond.

Well tomorrow at work, I'll let him see that I'm online and see what happens. Maybe I'll just send a "hello". I would like to still see him, we usually together a few times a month. I still need that until someday (a miracle) my H is interested in sex again on a regular basis. Its something I need, but I am trying to find other "hobbies" to keep myself busy lol.

Anyways, I will give him this week to do something, if I don't get any response, I will be not responding to him for a good long time!! Or maybe never, depends.

Its just that after that 8 or so weeks NC, I was getting to the point where i didn't think about him alot. I think I've still stayed in that place, I was never sure if it was going to last or not. So I'm not going to be heartbroken if it ends, but I will be a little disappointed though. I can't say I wouldn't miss him because I would.

Dusty
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