When did you first say it?

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Registered: 07-12-2004
When did you first say it?
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Sun, 09-13-2009 - 8:58pm

How long have you been with AP?

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Registered: 09-13-2009
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 9:03pm
We've been together for almost 3 years, he said ILY about 6 months into our relationship, I told him he didn't and not to lie to me. About a year after that, he said it again, followed by "I'm not lying this time". I have said it in txt messages and in the heat of the moment, we try not to say ILY that much but know that we care deeply for each other. We are FWB and I would like to keep it that way.
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Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 11:17pm
We've been together a little over a year. AP said he loved me 2 months into it. I was shocked to say the least, but it was nice to hear.
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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 3:08pm

How long have you been with AP? 2 years

How long into the relationship til "I love you" was said? 6 months

Who said it first? MM. I said immediately after he said.

We are madly in love even now.

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Registered: 08-02-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 7:19pm
we hinted around at first that something more was going on between us.
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Registered: 09-26-2009
Sat, 09-26-2009 - 8:28pm
I have known AP for almost a year now.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 09-26-2009 - 8:40pm

How long have you been with AP? I've known xap for over a year now. We first met in school but didn't have any kind of relationship outside of school until last July, didn't realize we were in an A until well after Christmas.


How long into the relationship til "I love you" was said? Late this winter, so about 6 months or so in, I suppose. When we'd talk on the phone, I'd whisper it into the phone after he hung up. It felt good to say it, even if he didn't hear me.


Who said it first? Can you believe I have no idea which one of us said it first or exactly when we said it! I think it was finally said to each other only after my divorce was filed, so that was in June, almost a year after we moved to the more personal relationship. We truly were friends first, though, with NO intentions of having an affair. And it's so good to have our relationship out in the open.