When do i call?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
When do i call?
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 1:03am
As some of you know i posted a question should i get reinvolved with this man after 11 years?I have decided that i don't want to give him up a second time.Now the question is when do i call him?He is really busy a business and full time job at night.He told me call him during the day .At this point i don't know if i should call today or wait?I saw him on Saturday night and this might appear i am calling to soon.

So do i go with my gut call him and see what happens or do i wait for him to call me?

I just don't want to mess this up!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2004
In reply to: justme653
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:07am
Just me-

This may sound cynical, but I would wait to call him as long as you can physically and mentally stand it. One thing I have learned is to stay a little distant from my MM and let him make some of the moves - he does not get scared and also, I know how much he cares. Try to think about other things and keep your mind off of him. It will be good for you to relax and get some perspective.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2004
In reply to: justme653
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:41am
I agree (I also need to take that advice somtimes as well).
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: justme653
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 9:55am
I actully thought about what you said all long.I figure that if he can approach after all those years i should just wait to let him call.I know he wants me back in his life and he did say i am going to give you some time to think about it.But you have my number if you want to call..........

I am not going to stress to much and just go about my everyday life and sooner or later the phone will ring.

Thanks for the help i just really needed to hear someone back up what i have been thinking all along.