When do you see your AP?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
When do you see your AP?
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Fri, 12-18-2009 - 8:23pm
I have just started talking to a man on AM that I may have an AP with. The problem is he says he can only meet during the day and then it would most likely have to be before 2 pm. Does anyone else have these time constraints and how does it work? Does this seem to work out ok? We will only be able to see each other for short bits of time several times a year so was wondering how others deal with it and how they feel.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2004
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 9:04pm

I see AP every week.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2008
Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:42pm

I meet my AP in the afternoons about once a month.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2007
Sat, 12-19-2009 - 12:38pm
I would think hard about this. It seems fine now, but you may get emotionally involved and want to see him all the time and it will be hard to deal with. It's torture sometimes, when you want to see them and can't do anything about it. If this is really what you want, go for it, but go in, knowing what might happen.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
Sat, 12-19-2009 - 12:45pm
Non,
Thanks for the reply.
I am only in his state a few months a year so know it cannot be a full time thing. That is Ok with me for now. I think it works out pretty well this way as I can only do so many weeks a year off and on.
Have not met him in person yet but could in the next 6 weeks. it will be interesting to see exactly how much time he has. If I find it is very minimal, then I may decide it's not going to work. Was curious how others did finding their AP's on AM.
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Registered: 09-07-2009
Sun, 12-20-2009 - 12:09am
Every seven to ten days...we live in different States. We get together to be alone and also do things with our friends...we have a lot of fun.