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| Wed, 10-22-2003 - 8:08am |
We had plans for Saturday and I talked to him at 8 pm on Friday night and he didnt know exactly what his obligations were for Saturday yet. He asked me to shut off my cell so he could call and leave me a message so I'd know what time he would be available to get together...Saturday all day, no call...sunday all day, no call...monday all day, no call...tuesday all day, no call...I left him a message at 4 pm Tuesday asking if he was "ok", it's now Wednesday...lets see if he calls...
It's terribly hard to not be worried about them and it's not like you can make them return your calls...worse part is that I've come to expect this mistreatment from him...I'm just not feeling very good about myself right now...
I just hope when he finally gets around to calling that I can work through this matter taking my best interest into consideration instead of falling victim to my weakness for him...
Anyone else been here?
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Since it is merely common courtesy to return a phone call from a business acquaintance, it's *more* than courtesy to expect return calls from people we actually have a relationship with. Not returning a call is a clear sign of disrespect. If I wouldn't put up with it in a business relationship, why on earth would I put up with it from my loved ones?
I completely disagree with the argument that "it's an affair, so I need to expect disrespect." Coming after wife and children and work does not mean disrespect. My OM will always find some way to let me know he's thinking of me, even if it's using a completely innocuous code word during a business phone call. If he's even mildly creative, he can figure out a way to communicate if he really wants to.
Which, of course, leads to the question, does he really want to? And do you want to be with him if he's not willing to make the effort to even speak?
Goodness, I tell my children to be polite. If kids can be polite, why can't men? Why do we expect less of adults than we expect of little children?
I really miss him alot, I hope we get back to how it was before, but I'm not holding my breath on that,
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