when it rains it pours!

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Registered: 06-17-2010
when it rains it pours!
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Tue, 07-27-2010 - 11:14am

Okay - seriously I now know God has a sense of humor.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 11:23am

What's up with these guys popping out of the woodwork from our distant past?


I have to warn you: when you've had feelings for someone previously, you'd be surprised at how quickly and with how much intensity those feelings can come back.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 11:51am
Oh my!
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 11:54am

Your H didn't mind you talking to an old B/F for six hours? Mine would have been hovering right there listening with half an ear the whole time LOL.

AE is right, tread carefully. Old feelings can come smashing back.

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:13pm
I had something similar happen to me last month. At this point I am in an EA with someone from work. Then I had another person from work, not a coworker, but someone I interact with at work from a different dept, tell me he was in an open marriage, preferred older women (he is 25) and would like to take me to lunch, finally an old boyfriend/friend from high school and I have been keeping in touch for the past two years and H knows about it. He happened to call me at home two weeks ago and H was around and asked who it was. I told him and he flipped out. Now he thinks I am having an A with him! Only positive here is that it draws any suspicion away from EAP. When it rains it pours-you're right!
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Tue, 07-27-2010 - 12:16pm

Definitely treading carefully -


Lexi - H moved out (and across the country) he is west coast, I am east now.

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