when will i end this ?
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when will i end this ?
| Sun, 08-29-2010 - 2:56am |
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| Mon, 08-30-2010 - 1:32pm |
if u really want to end it, put a rubber band on your wrist and snap it every time u think of him, want to contact him, or miss him. in time, you will think of him less. and soon 3 months will pass. but u must also keep yourself busy busy busy, if u are truly ready to stop seeing him NOW. otherwise, if u enjoy your connection but hate the way he goes AWOL so nonchalantly, then tell him. tell him u need more regular contact, and if he can't give that to you then you will move on. take no excuses, etc.... do not email this info to him, do not text him: tell him face to face. he will either ramp up withhis regular contact, etc... or he will let you know that u need more than he can give, and he will tell u good-bye. in '08 i totally had to tell my AP that i needed more regular contact, not like every day, but every coupld of days would have been really nice, and he actually started to acquiesce to my requests. sometimes the guys don't know what we need, even in an A, if we don't tell them. in '09 my AP told me he couldn't give me what i wanted, and he was doing the best he could given his regular life schedule, and that if i could understand, that would be great, but if i needed more, than he would understand as well; and, well... that just kept us going a bit longer, but at least he acknowledged my needs and i acknowledged his. these "relationships" ebb and flow, too. it's
