I don't think people are "disappointed" as much as they are worried for you. Your AP sounds like he could be dangerous. No one here ever counsels a woman to stay with an abuser, whether that's her H or her AP. No one here wants to wonder what happened to you if you stop coming by here, making us wonder if you're in the hospital or worse. Think about it!
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
I know nothing about what you have experienced... but for you to mention in your last post that his treatment of women is part of his culture.. or heritage... and that you will accept it...
I can't understand anyone with a healthy self esteem staying in something like this...
You seem to be a statistic looking for a place to happen...
so I guess its alright then.......Is he in the Taliban? Whatever "culture" it is, WHY would you "accept" it???? Just because he was raised to be a jacka$$ doesnt mean you should "accept" it...Why would you want to associate yourself with that kind of culture????
Just because he isnt hitting YOU....YET...doesnt mean its not abuse..........He has made threats on your life....but you will accept that? I guess you will wait until he hits you.....but then...he will say sorry and you will make another excuse....He said he beat up his last girlfriend....how big and bright does the Red Flag have to be???
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Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Exactly Lexi!
Gal - I echo what Lexi said 1000% - and I truly do hope you take her advice and think about it -
I know I should not give
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For the record he is not paying my mortgage.. He will if I ask him to but that will probably be the end of me.
I know nothing about what you have experienced... but for you to mention in your last post that his treatment of women is part of his culture.. or heritage... and that you will accept it...
I can't understand anyone with a healthy self esteem staying in something like this...
You seem to be a statistic looking for a place to happen...
so I guess its alright then.......Is he in the Taliban? Whatever "culture" it is, WHY would you "accept" it???? Just because he was raised to be a jacka$$ doesnt mean you should "accept" it...Why would you want to associate yourself with that kind of culture????
Just because he isnt hitting YOU....YET...doesnt mean its not abuse..........He has made threats on your life....but you will accept that? I guess you will wait until he hits you.....but then...he will say sorry and you will make another excuse....He said he beat up his last girlfriend....how big and bright does the Red Flag have to be???
WOW!
It is okay to feel anger... everyone does at some point. BUT I don't care what culture he is from, it is NEVER right to
Why does he want to kill you? I mean,really why?
GoD BLesS
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