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Registered: 05-14-2009
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 11:06pm

Hi, All


Sorry, to disappointed you all in taking my AP back ~

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 7:30am
I don't think people are "disappointed" as much as they are worried for you. Your AP sounds like he could be dangerous. No one here ever counsels a woman to stay with an abuser, whether that's her H or her AP. No one here wants to wonder what happened to you if you stop coming by here, making us wonder if you're in the hospital or worse. Think about it!

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 12:20pm

Exactly Lexi!


Gal - I echo what Lexi said 1000% - and I truly do hope you take her advice and think about it -


lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 12:47pm

I know I should not give

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 1:12pm
So,you are not back with him ? Or you are back with him? Please be clear,its sooo confusing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 4:01pm
I strongly urge you to call the Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-SAFE, and

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 4:19pm

For the record he is not paying my mortgage.. He will if I ask him to but that will probably be the end of me.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 4:33pm

I know nothing about what you have experienced... but for you to mention in your last post that his treatment of women is part of his culture.. or heritage... and that you will accept it...


I can't understand anyone with a healthy self esteem staying in something like this...


You seem to be a statistic looking for a place to happen...

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 5:14pm

so I guess its alright then.......Is he in the Taliban? Whatever "culture" it is, WHY would you "accept" it???? Just because he was raised to be a jacka$$ doesnt mean you should "accept" it...Why would you want to associate yourself with that kind of culture????


Just because he isnt hitting YOU....YET...doesnt mean its not abuse..........He has made threats on your life....but you will accept that? I guess you will wait until he hits you.....but then...he will say sorry and you will make another excuse....He said he beat up his last girlfriend....how big and bright does the Red Flag have to be???


WOW!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2007
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 6:17pm

It is okay to feel anger... everyone does at some point. BUT I don't care what culture he is from, it is NEVER right to

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Fri, 07-17-2009 - 3:35pm

Why does he want to kill you? I mean,really why?

GoD BLesS

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