Where do you & MM/OM meet?

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Registered: 09-18-2003
Where do you & MM/OM meet?
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Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:48am
I'm wondering how you meet up with your MM/OM .... especially if you are in the same town...it's hard to be discreet.... Needing new ideas !

What about excuses to get time away? Lets do some sharing !

Wishing~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:51am
In the park, in the woods, sometimes at work (we work at the same place but different locations, now). Now that I have my own place I have been convincing MM to come pay me a visit.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 11:56am
hey wishing -- MM and i meet first thing in the morning on our way to work. we take our 90 minutes together and then part for our separate commutes. unless one of us is feeling extra-needy for more time together, which means that MM and i will commute together with him dropping me at my office. that way we have another hour together just talking, smooching, etc.

or i'll be going shopping on the way home or on saturday/sunday for a few hours and MM and i will meet somewhere.

the key is to devote alot of attention to the one at home and that will keep suspicions to a minimum when you do make an excuse to be out and about.

good luck honey,

gurl

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Registered: 11-17-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:05pm
I get to spend time with SG at work, and once we even got to take a business trip together (this was pre-A, and was just good for dinner, a movie and a marathon chat session, but was a very very happy memory for us).

DH knows I go to the gym every Sunday, but he doesn't know how long the actual workout takes... ;-) Sometimes I manage to work in lunch w/ SG after a workout. Maybe I can substitute one "workout" for another one at his place...? Tee hee!

I have on a couple of occasions swung by his place on the way to or from the grocery store (time for a goodnight kiss only...). True "alone time" is very difficult to come by, and has been catch-as-catch-can (a happy hour "with the guys from work" here, an afternoon together there if DH is out of town or doing his own thing for the day). I am not as discreet about it as I should be, which I have been thinking about more lately.

Open to other ideas, here, people!

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:20pm
Hi GC,

Me and MM met thru his W of all things! That was 5 years ago. It was business. Met up again almost 2 yrs ago (business as usual) when MM confided in me that he'd always had a crush on me since we first met back in '98. I did too, but never even considered an EMA. When he said those words and later asked if I was interested in an EMA that was like music to my ears. The rest is history.

Most of what we do is via phone, but he comes to my office and we chat and once even got it on in the conference room! Did I say that? We have SUVs which turn into love mobiles. Plus we've gone to a secluded place in a park amongst other private places.

I am self employed and can call my hours and where I'm going, so that's never been a problem. MM's W sticks him with the kids 24/7 to keep him on a short leash but he drops them off at a friends when I'm out his way.

Luvin

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Registered: 11-17-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:34pm
Heh. Wish I was ballsy enough to get it on in the conference room. There are days...

Too bad neither of our vehicles are appropriate; I think I need to take a page from the people ending their marriages and start saving up for a VW bus of my own!

I've been wanting to go somewhere secluded with my SG-- lovemaking in the park is so romantic and sexy!

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Registered: 06-18-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:38pm
Luckily for me, MM has no qualms about spending $$ on hotel rooms, nice ones too. He owns his own company and owns his own time, which is helpful. Typically, if we are in our neighborhood, he'll go in and rent a day room on his own and then text msg me w/ the room number. A lot of times, I've tagged along on his "business trips" - NYC, Newport, Maine, etc etc. We were lucky over the sumemr to spend time every week together and spend a night every two weeks. We've both been busier since the start of fall, so its been few and far between (not to mention he broke it off and called it back on a couple of times b/c his W is pregnant, but thats a different story).

We also did it on some hiking trails in the woods, in the car a few times, and on a Greyhound bus.... We had a list of places we wanted to go and things we wanted to do together, but some thigns never materialized, like the beach, in the bathroom of the express train to NYC, etc.

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Registered: 11-05-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 12:51pm
Hey wishing...

I usually do more reading than posting...But, my MM & I are going to actually meet at a nice hotel this week! I'm really excited, nervous, guilty, etc. But I'm thinking about him more & more every day. We haven't been intimate in over 10 years (i posted my story a few weeks ago)...So i don't know what to expect.

But I smile everyday just thinking about it!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 2:12pm
Several times during the week after I get off work I stop by his office. Once a week at our little hotel for a day of adventure and naps. Gotta love the naps! I am leaving in about 45 minutes to get that nap in:):) NMR
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 2:13pm
NMR -- HAVE TONS OF FUN AND ENJOY THAT NAPPIE!!

gurl

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Registered: 11-17-2003
Tue, 11-18-2003 - 3:41pm
We meet at his house 99% of the time, occasionally he'll meet me at mine but not usually. Some excuses I use are that I need some time alone and that I am going to WalMart to walk around (I do this often anyhow, so it doesn't seem off to my H), that I am going out with the girls, or I don't give an excuse and just leave work early and see MM.

justneedmore

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