Where do you say you are?

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Where do you say you are?
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Mon, 08-10-2009 - 11:50am

We all have to be careful not to get caught. I had a dday once (prior M) and am not going thru that again, so -

I'm lucky that I don't work and have days to myself. Lunch date w/AP is a regular. But sometimes an AP wants to hook up after hours and I have to come up with an excuse for H. I feel like I'm getting into a rut so I'm wondering how you girls handle that. . .where do you tell H you are when you're meeting AP?

One thing I did was talk H into dropping land line at the house. I can be away from home and he won't find out by calling there.

How do you other girls deal with these things?

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Mon, 08-10-2009 - 2:59pm
My A is with a younger guy just for s*x.My H is physically sick and have adult kids who i guess,are sensing that i am seeing someone for myself.Its my life and what i do with it is non of their business.i usually just say that i am out with my girlfriends for dinner,got caught up at work,car tyre got flat,going late evening shopping,etc.My H also suspects but really cant do anything about it.I feel sorry for him but what can i do?I have needs and cant do without them even at 55! some would call it crazy but thats me.
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Registered: 05-02-2004
Tue, 08-11-2009 - 3:27am
I think we've all used out with the girls, o/t at work, shopping, someone's birthday at work.