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where is my man ?
| Sat, 04-10-2004 - 12:21pm |
that is what I want to know!
Edited 4/12/2004 5:52 am ET ET by xxx_trouble
Edited 4/12/2004 5:52 am ET ET by xxx_trouble
| Sat, 04-10-2004 - 12:21pm |
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Of course you can go on with your life! What's so bad about being alone? It's a good place to start discovering YOU. You went straight form an abusive marriage into a relationship with a man who was never available - primarily because he paid you some attention and made you feel good about yourself. And you need to believe those good things about yourself even in his absense form you life. Just because he's gone, doesn't mean the good in you has gone.
You need to spend time finding YOU. Having a man is not the be all and end all of existence. Why would anyone want to be in an abusive relationship rather than be alone? The greatest joy in any intimate relationship is when it's two whole people coming together because they WANT to be with each other, not because one party NEEDS the other. And at the moment, you're anything but whole and well. You're self esteem is non evident, you're self pittying, and needy in the extreem. And they're not attractive qualities to anyone. You need to fix you so you can then find a man who deserves you!
Edited 4/10/2004 1:59 pm ET ET by cheshierfire
I hate to see someone who feels so sad! I think you should find some new friends and start going out and doing things. Don't ask me how i think you should do that because thats one answer I don't have. I find myself in the same boat at times. I do know that if you had stayed with your xh your life would probably be more unhappy, I am just forming my opinion from what I have read of your posts. Just don't let him or any other man have that much control over your emotions, you need to find something to make YOU happy!
hope I didn't step out of bounds with this post.
Good luck, if you ever need to talk feel free to email me
SB
Evilmama55@Yahoo.com
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Support doesn't mean sugar coating things and telling you you'll hear from you MM soon and that it's obvious he loves you. Because it isn't! And, honey, you're not having a weak 'moment' of insecurity - you're having a life of it. And the only one who can change that is YOU. Do you not love yourself enough to want something better than this in life?
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