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Registered: 05-14-2009
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 11:06pm

Hi, All


Sorry, to disappointed you all in taking my AP back ~

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:59pm
Galcurve,
How are you doing? whats up? update us! I am thinking about you!!
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Registered: 01-09-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 6:08pm

I might be crazy and silly and a lot of times I do stupid things. But please, do me a favor and read over what you have written before. I am guessing here, is he moroccan? I get the feeling he is muslim, that does not mean I am saying all muslims are violent towards women. Cause Islam is not about beating women. Those people whom force their women to do things are living a cultural way of islam. Hard to explain here. I do have a muslim friend, the only muslim I have ever met whom I can say about, he is a true muslim. He worships his wife, would never do any harm to her.
Anyways, getting back to you. If a man threatens you like that, do you know what it shows? Not power, not strength. It show how weak he really is. The only way for him to believe he is superior or strong is to put fear into others. If I were you, I would tell him to get lost. Truly lost. Once you show him your own strength, it can go either way. He could be totally floored by it and withdraw. Cause he will realize, you are not as weak as he is. Or he could really turn violent, to prove a point. In either case, you better protect yourself while you can. Get pepper spray, inform friends of your where abouts, on and on and on. Not because he is going to do something, but because he COULD do something. You dont want to take that chance. You better be safe than sorry.
Good luck!
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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 7:29pm

Why does he want to kill you? I mean,really why?


In the beginning of our relationship,

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 8:04pm

Hi, Sakkra


Thank you for your reply.. Yes, he is Muslim.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 8:32pm

Hi, Funkygonepunky,


I am doing find and thank you for asking.. We are still communicating and I won't get to

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 8:39pm

Sorry for the confusion.. I am still communcating with him.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 8:53pm

Thank you for the link and the number---I

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Sun, 07-19-2009 - 12:18pm
((( hugs ))) somehow you have got emotionally attached to him ( why in the world a guy like him??? there are soo many guys around to have an A with !).Once you get involved emotionally,its the most difficult thing to let go.No one knows better than one who is in it!Your AP is single,why doesnt he go find a single woman?
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Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 8:23pm

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“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 07-23-2009 - 1:49pm

Well,galcurve, i am at a loss to figure out you and your AP.Sorry! I will try tho,lol!
If you believe he is coming on to you just for sex and can pay a hooker etc.,well then,you are more reliable than those for the only reason that they are hookers and you are a MW ! you may not be carrying around the diseases which they might be.
As for him finding another single woman,well,he might have one,how would you know that he doesnt?? and just toying around with your heart as i am assuming that you have told him that you love him?

Just throw him out of your life for once.You and your AP,both will be alright as there is no strong foundation for it to grow into something much more fonder.As i said earlier,there are better guys to have an A with!