which AP to choose? 3 solid options....!

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Registered: 05-26-2009
which AP to choose? 3 solid options....!
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Thu, 06-11-2009 - 11:10pm

So... I was looking for an ap on Ashley Madison and met a few guys with potential. Very nice, cute, normal guys. Have spent a good deal or time getting to know 3 in particular. I figured it wouldn't work out with all of them, and the one left would be the best choice. Well so far they are all great for different reasons. 1 is like H used to be. 1 is completely opposite of anything I have ever gone for, and one is older with a french accent! I have a lot in common with all of them. Well yesterday I slept with one of them. I hadn't planned it, but it happened. It was pretty good.

So now that I did that, does that make my choice for me? What if one of the other ones is better for me? I really am looking for a long term thing... How did I get in this position? All 3 guys want to meet up more... 1 for more sex, and the other 2 for our first time.

I am not a slut. I have been with 6 guys total, in my life, so what do I do? Pick the one I slept with and stop talking to the others? But I like them all so much, and they all have so much to offer!

Help me please! I am so lost and confused at what I have gotten myself into!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 12:27am

You should probably sleep with all 3, then make a decision.


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-11-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 12:28am
Are you looking for an affair? Than Ashley Madison is your site. Are you looking for a love relationship? Probably not on there.
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Registered: 05-26-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 11:34am

I am not looking for love... I am looking for a long term exclusive affair. I know AM has a lot of losers, but I am confident in these men and their motives.

as far as sleeping with all 3 and then deciding, are you serious???

One of the guys knows I am talking to others, and he said the same thing: that since I am looking for good in bed, I cant make a decision without knowing that... although he might be saying that to guarantee he gets to sleep with me...

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 12:29pm
LOL...well that is definately one way to decide...
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 12:57pm

Sometimes you get me.


OP:

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2008
Sat, 06-13-2009 - 8:17am

Oh, this is sooo funny!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 11:24am
WOW ! this is soo exciting.Its a good way to get your needs met!
OP, by trial and error,you will find the right one for you.it is difficult to survive an unhappy M and if your needs are being fulfilled elsewhere,i dont see any wrong.
OTOH,be safe!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 7:13pm
OH my gosh...I'm in the exact same position, althought I only have 2 to choose from.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2008
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 10:19pm

Well, now that you've gotten all of our attention, you have to let us know how this all turns out!