which AP to choose? 3 solid options....!
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| Thu, 06-11-2009 - 11:10pm |
So... I was looking for an ap on Ashley Madison and met a few guys with potential. Very nice, cute, normal guys. Have spent a good deal or time getting to know 3 in particular. I figured it wouldn't work out with all of them, and the one left would be the best choice. Well so far they are all great for different reasons. 1 is like H used to be. 1 is completely opposite of anything I have ever gone for, and one is older with a french accent! I have a lot in common with all of them. Well yesterday I slept with one of them. I hadn't planned it, but it happened. It was pretty good.
So now that I did that, does that make my choice for me? What if one of the other ones is better for me? I really am looking for a long term thing... How did I get in this position? All 3 guys want to meet up more... 1 for more sex, and the other 2 for our first time.
I am not a slut. I have been with 6 guys total, in my life, so what do I do? Pick the one I slept with and stop talking to the others? But I like them all so much, and they all have so much to offer!
Help me please! I am so lost and confused at what I have gotten myself into!

You should probably sleep with all 3, then make a decision.
I am not looking for love... I am looking for a long term exclusive affair. I know AM has a lot of losers, but I am confident in these men and their motives.
as far as sleeping with all 3 and then deciding, are you serious???
One of the guys knows I am talking to others, and he said the same thing: that since I am looking for good in bed, I cant make a decision without knowing that... although he might be saying that to guarantee he gets to sleep with me...
Sometimes you get me.
OP:
Oh, this is sooo funny!
OP, by trial and error,you will find the right one for you.it is difficult to survive an unhappy M and if your needs are being fulfilled elsewhere,i dont see any wrong.
OTOH,be safe!
Well, now that you've gotten all of our attention, you have to let us know how this all turns out!