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Who Else Knows?
| Sat, 01-03-2004 - 9:03am |
I'm just wondering who else knows about your A? Did you tell them or did they find you out?
As for me, I have one co-worker who knows. There was a point when I thought I was imagining things between MM and I, and my co-worker and I were at a retreat and were doing the late at night girl talk thing. I told her that I had thought there might be something between MM & I and we laughed about it. A week or two later I realized that I had been right, and I told her about it. I have found that it's extremely helpful to have one other person who knows. I know I'm not supposed to trust anyone, so I'm not thinking about lying to her and telling her it's over.

I would never dream of telling anyone else - which is partly why I sought out this message board - as one more place I can share what's happening, read other people's stories, and know I am not alone.
I'm single and my friends know that I have somebody,
some even met him but nobody has any idea I'm with
a married man. There are two reasons for I'd rather
keep it secret: 1.I don't want to be judged 2.you never
know if people keep secret what you want them to keep secret.
It's hard... I spent New Year all by myself and wished nobody
call and ask me about it...I'm such a bad liar.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
I would never tell my sister, even though SHE told ME when she was starting to enter into an A (with a single guy, she is M). She is also kind of best-friends with this single guy's sister, and she knew something was going on between them and was not happy about it. Also, my sister made the mistake of letting it out to my brother-in-law and he sometimes makes snide jokes about it. I am worried for her if her H ever heard about it.