Who here shares mundane things w/ OM/OW?

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Who here shares mundane things w/ OM/OW?
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 3:25pm
I periodically get to go to the store with my SG, and it turns the chore into so much fun! We laugh and laugh and cause all kinds of ruckus. Does anybody else share with their OM/OW the kinds of things we do, like running errands, commuting, doing volunteer work, studying together, etc.?

And even though we're FWOB right now, even just walking beside him in the grocery store feels so right, and I'm content with that. (even though it does make me wonder if we really would be great together full-time if I ever left DH...) Am I making too much of it?

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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 3:32pm
heck no, gc, you're definitely not making too much of it 'cause i feel the same way!

natural progession, i think!

gurl




Edited 2/18/2004 12:43:14 PM ET by gurlfriend50
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:10pm

Hey geek chic,


While sharing such chores with MM is near on impossible... we do share the boring happenings of our days... I email him every morning telling what has happened since the last email... which could have been last night... and in this case... was! but I will still email him this morning and keep him 'up to date'


He too does the same to me... giving me the run down of what's been happening... it may even be nothing! but we still tell each other... nothing's happening.


When we haven't emailed for a few days... it feels like an eternity and that I have so much to tell him.


I can not in any way really share his life with him... but hearing all the mundane things from him... just makes me feel a part of his life.


luv and hugs


Sweet
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:20pm
I don't get to share those sorts of things with MM yet, but isn't it odd, doing those things with him when normally you're doing them while THINKING about him? That's what strikes me as odd. MM walked me to my car one night after work and it was so bizarre because normally I'm walking out there alone, thinking about him. I know if we went to the grocery store together or Home Depot or any of the usual places, it would be strange not because it would seem so familiar, but because I'm always thinking about him when I'm at those places, wondering what it would be like to be there with him...
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:25pm
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Edited 3/10/2004 3:58 pm ET ET by geek_chic
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:40pm
Funny that you asked. Just the other Saturday MM "accidently" bumped into me and my youngest daughter while we were grocery shopping. He actually walked around with me while I did my shopping. He also got to see how spoiled my baby is. Most anything she asked for went right into the cart. But she is my baby and keeps me company when MM can't.

It was really nice having an adult to talk to while shopping. I was just kind of nervous that someone who knew us would be there, but they weren't so it was all good. We had a nice time.

~Blue

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Tue, 12-16-2003 - 4:42pm
Geek chic,

My MM and I also do things together, go to post office, hardware store for stuff for his DD science project, etc.

We have fun doing that kind of thing

SB

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