who made the first A move???
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who made the first A move???
| Sat, 12-06-2008 - 10:31pm |
When AP and I became physical, we were under influence of alcohol. I could not really remember how it happened, well i remembered everything except for who kissed who first. When I asked him today, he said it was me, he did not realize i did not remember. I found it a bit "disturbing", our relationship before was very professional and we were very good colleagues. He said it did not matter who made the first move and it was mutual and etc. But i really do not like the idea that I kissed him.
Does anyone care to share the stories who made the first move?

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hello girls!
I met my AP a little over a year ago and we were instantly attracted to one another but there were mixed signals so nothing happened at that time. His work brought him to my office, I thought him to be too much a family man to ever consider it, he thought I was totally "off limits" and I found out recently he thought so from asking a male friend of mine about me. We were both out of town at the same convention and I had been talking with another man on the internet and made arrangements for this man to drive there for us to meet but ended up with AP. My AP kept throwing hints my way his first night there and one of the other men actually made a comment about my AP following me out of the room. Several of us went out late that night, I felt uncomfortable with the group we were with (only went because he did), he was sitting beside me, and I asked if he wanted to shoot pool. We went over to the tables, he went to get change, when he returned I was sitting on a stool and someone else had taken the table ahead of us. He stood behind me and leaned down to kiss me on my forehead, I showed him I was also interested, he said let's get out of here...and the rest is history. Yes, we both had already had way too much to drink.
This was about a month ago and I already know he loves me. He was so afraid I would hate him once the night was over and didn't want us to go our separate ways. We spent the entire week together and he wouldn't make a move on me the rest of the week because things had gotten out of hand the first night. We still spent the night together all those nights just holding each other and he told me he loves me. He's already talking about leaving his W. I'm so happy to have him in my life and know things have moved fast but am willing to take the leap. My first night back home, I woke up holding my H's hand forgetting where/who I was with. lol AP said he's also been talking in his sleep a lot and thinks he needs to move to the couch. :)
I made the first move, and yes -- I was drunk.
OMG-ohbaby I could have written this post almost word for word except mine is going on 12 years & there was a very long gap in between. The guys are no longer friends either & we almost never see each other :-(
AP kissed 1st which shocked me but I was totally hooked from that instant---like a drug I tell you! There was no alcohol involved, at least not excessive. I had not drank but he may have had a beer. I don't remember---it's too many years ago but he started it.
hi oh baby!
i feel the same way...
I have had 4 A's.
1st A, was a full blown relationship, both had M problems,....she made the first move.
2nd A, was a hot quickie at work,...she made the first move.
3rd A, was just some foreplay on the dance floor at a night club,..I made the first move.
4th A, is now turning into an all out relationship,...she made the first move.
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