who made the first A move???
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who made the first A move???
| Sat, 12-06-2008 - 10:31pm |
When AP and I became physical, we were under influence of alcohol. I could not really remember how it happened, well i remembered everything except for who kissed who first. When I asked him today, he said it was me, he did not realize i did not remember. I found it a bit "disturbing", our relationship before was very professional and we were very good colleagues. He said it did not matter who made the first move and it was mutual and etc. But i really do not like the idea that I kissed him.
Does anyone care to share the stories who made the first move?

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Mmmm this question brings back such a good memory.
AP and I were friends for about 3 yrs before it turned PA. I was home one day on computer and he IM'd me out of the blue. We talked this way every day for about 6 months, discovering we knew some of the same ppl. One day he asked me to lunch, and I agreed to meet him. Things remained status quo for the next 18 months, tho he did give chase. I kept declining.
Last summer he told me he had to go out of town for a week for work and I asked if I could drive to where he was one of the nights and we could have dinner together...he was very suprised I asked.
I showed up at his hotel room in my work clothes (scrubs) but had a little black dress with me. I quickly changed, we went out for eats and drinks. After the third drink he asked "should we get out of here" and I was all about leaving the bar. We went back to his room, sat on the bed and talked a little bit, and I'm not really sure who "made th first move", but it let to 5 hours of amazing sex :)
Things are still going quite well for us.
Okay first move as in sexual?LOL.
When AP and I first met, he made the first move to touch me..we went for a drive around the town where he worked..so he could show me where he worked and etc.
MM and I are here trying to remember who it was that made the first move, it's been so long, neither of us can completely remember.
I know we were really busy at work, and he got in to my line, then, when another line opened, he went there, and I pouted at him. Then, like the next time he came in, he gave me his number and then I gave him mine. At this point we are trying to remember which of us called whom first...At any rate we talked for a long time.
That was more than 8 years ago, and we still spend hours on the phone, when we aren't sitting next to each other talking, and stuff.
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This is a great post!
I have not done the proper statistical analysis, but it looks like women make first move more often.....
I'm just wondering if all us "move makers" are in the same age area?
I'm 35
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